Happy Mother's DayAfter having an unbelievably bad Friday and Saturday (of my own making, by the way), Dave and the kids gave me a great, relaxing Mother's Day.
It didn't start quite as well as it ended. I woke up at 2:30 a.m., not to breakfast in bed, but a mariachi band
literally next door blasting some song in Spanish. I don't know if this was a serenade to a mother or just a band practicing. But again at 6:30 a.m.-- still not breakfast, but more loud music. Again at 8am....this time to breakfast and homemade Mother's Day cards. This is the first year that I slept in till it was brought to me. Usually 5 people making breakfast wakes me up. That's when my good day started. And I thought Dave had forgotten.
We had no church, due to the flu, so I lazed in bed reading till 10:30.
For a while the kids and I made a mess doing paper mache flowers like
these. (Ours aren't finished yet). Dave cleaned it up.
For lunch I ate leftover ceviche, my favorite.
More reading and lazing.
I made dinner, but only because I wanted to. Dave and the kids did dishes.
Presents from Dave. Including Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream all for myself, that costs about $10 for a pint here.
The best thing of all was Dave made me a schedule for the coming week that included 3 or 4 hours of me-time every day. It changed the week I was dreading into a week to look forward to. My bad Friday and Saturday had mostly consisted of me losing it because I've been taking care of kids nonstop for almost a month, and I couldn't handle the thought of another week.
I am so lucky to have such a thoughtful husband and sweet kids that forgive me for my many bad days. I feel like I can do it now.